We all lie – at least a little – sometimes, right? But when we catch our kids pull the wool over our eyes, we tend to panic. So let’s see at what age this is likely to happen the most.
Level: B2 Skill: reading comprehension Language focus: vocabulary
Teaser: There are 6 words/expressions in the text that refer to lying that is NOT telling the truth. Can you find all of them?
The Age Kids Lie the Most, According to Science
by Esther Crain on Yahoo Parenting
Whether it’s a white lie or a whopper, kids at this age are most likely to pull the wool over their parents’ eyes.
Everyone lies, at least a little bit. But in news that won’t shock parents used to sketchy answers about bad grades and missed curfews, no age group fibs as frequently as teenagers.
That’s the conclusion of a new study, which examined lying across the entire lifespan. The main finding: While adolescents tell the most lies, college-age and young adults between 18 and 29 are the best, most successful liars.
Young children between ages 6 and 8 and adults over 60 were found to be the least dishonest age groups and also the least skilled liars, according to the study, published in the September issue of the journal Acta Psychologica.
Study authors looked at 1,005 kids and adults between the ages of 6 and 77. To find out about lying frequency, they asked each subject to self-report how many lies they had told in the past 24 hours.
On average, the study participants told two lies a day. Yet that number increased throughout childhood, with frequency peaking in the teen years at 2.8 fibs daily before petering out in the young adult years, midlife, and among senior citizens.
When it came to determining who were the best fibbers, the study authors asked subjects to answer certain yes-no questions that each had an obvious right answer, such as “can pigs fly.” Then they measured how quickly each participant answered each question.
What does response time have to do with lying? The researchers theorize that to lie successfully, a person must have high levels of “executive control,” in other words, the ability to suppress the truth almost instantly and not give away the fact that they aren’t telling the truth by stammering or pausing.
“Typically, people are slower and make more errors when lying, and this was taken as an index of the difficulty of lying,” study coauthor Bruno Verschuere, associate professor of forensic psychology at the University of Amsterdam, tells Yahoo Parenting.
Teens and young adults have the highest levels of executive control, the researchers think, because the prefrontal cortex of their brains are sharpest. Young kids have yet to develop executive control because the prefrontal cortex hasn’t matured. “That part of the brain matures at about age 25, then starts to decline in late adulthood,” says Verschuere,
“Most people lie to get out of accountability or to avoid owning up to an error, and that’s generally the case with teenagers,” Fran Walfish, a Beverly Hills–based child and family psychotherapist, tells Yahoo Parenting. “When younger children lie, it’s usually to get attention by sensationalizing.”
Even though lying is part of growing up, that doesn’t mean parents have to accept it. “Honesty is the foundation of every relationship, and parents should insist that their kids tell them the truth,” says Walfish.
If it happens, “Sit with your teen and say that you understand why they told a specific lie, but that for you to feel secure, you need them to be honest,” she says. And praise the truth when they tell it rather than punish them harshly for doing something forbidden.
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Problem words # 2 – Lie and lay explained with interactive quiz
WORDS TO KNOW
accountability = responsibility
curfew = the time by which you must be home
finding = result
to get out of accountability = NOT taking responsibility for what you do
give away the truth = to show that you lie by acting strange
give sketchy answer = This is the opposite of giving straight answer
to lie, lied, lied (verb) = not tell the truth
to owe up to an error = to take responsibility for an error
to peak (verb) = to reach the highest number
to peter out (verb) = to become smaller gradually
prefrontal cortex = the part of your brain behind the forehead responsible for making decisions
pull the wool over someone’s eyes = to lie to someone
to stammer (verb) = to speak with difficulty and often stopping and repeating sounds
a white lie = a little lie about something unimportant
a whopper = a big lie
a fib = a lie
a fibber = a liar
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